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Tuesday, May 13, 2008

Look Inside

I don't remember where I got this, but I want to share it with everyone.. once I found out who is the writer, credit will be given to you .. so now, just enjoy it and don't forget to Look Inside..


'If you ever wonder about the man in your life.....you may want to look inside. Look inside. To see a different side of human we called MAN.

Look inside. Realize that he can and does feel for you something different, something special. He wakes up in the morning, and you're the first thing on his mind. If he could call you right then and there, he would. When he sees you, his heart leaps. Not just the first time, not just when you're "alone", but every time. Every time he meets you, it's as if his whole world has been renewed. It doesn't matter if it's raining, or sunny, snowing, pleasant, or dreary. You make the rain tender, the sun warmer, the snow caressing, a dreary day funny, and a pleasant day perfect. Without you, his days would have no meaning. Of course, you say "But there could be another." He says "There isn't another. You are the only one..." He brings you flowers. Not so you'll like him more, or so you'll give him a kiss, but because he simply loves to make you happy. To see that smile on your face. Though you never knew it, it took him four months to get the courage to ask you out. Yes, he was nervous, scared. All guys are. While they try to seem tough and insensitive-deep down asking a girl out is the hardest thing in the world. And it's only that hard because of you. You just had to be so perfect, so beautiful that his fear of rejection became overwhelming. And the day you said "sure" was the best day of his life.

Look inside. Sometimes you find something that you weren't looking for. Though he won't admit it, he'd much rather cuddle with you in front of the TV for an evening than go out with the guys (well most of the time). When you hold his hand, when he holds yours, it's the best feeling in the world. And when he sees you hurt or crying, it's ripping his heart in two. Deep down, he's a romantic. He'd love to sing you songs, but he just doesn't have the voice. He'd love to take you on a moonlit walk down the beach, but he has to settle for a stroll in the park. He wishes he could bring you a dozen roses every day, but his wallet just won't let him. Making you happy is his main goal in life. Some would say that a guy like this is not a man. He is too sensitive, too weak. But I say, for all the reasons on this page, that these things are precisely what make him a man. And your existence alone has already completed his life. You are not aware of it, but he cherishes each and every moment with you as if it could be his last. Because, deep down, he is afraid that you may just decide to leave. And that is his biggest fear. And if you did leave, this man would cry. Each second with you completes him. Whether you're walking together somewhere, cuddling on a chair, skiing the slopes, sharing an ice cream cone. No matter what it is you are doing, it makes him completely happy just to be with you.

Look inside. It is often surprising. The little things are what he cherishes most. When he gets to brush your hair, when you accidentally (or perhaps on purpose) brush fingertips. When you call unexpectedly, just to say hi. He lives for these moments. He would, if given the chance, die for you. This may seem ridiculous, but he would gladly give anything and all for you.

Just look inside. And you may find something worth holding onto. Now, just look around...because this guy is out there. Right now, at this very second, he is thinking of you. You may or may not know who he is. It may be your boyfriend, your best "guy friend", or it could be someone you've never met. All the same, someday all he'll want to do is make you happy.

Look inside. I've loved and been loved. I've hurt and been hurt. This is life. But believe me, true love still exists. All you have to do is look for it. I know I do... each and everyday ...'


To the man that I have found in my life... I just wanna say, I Love You... always have and always will.. you just don't have any idea how much I needed you in my life...


Yours Truly =)

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Everybody Has A Story said...

How come everyone's blog is so deep today huh?
I totally agree wt u Yenny.. Sometimes we tend to look beyond our shoulder and forgot to see the one in front of us. This time instead of seeking too far, I took the time and see the one in front of me who finally have d courage to ask me out after knowing each other months..hahaha.. on valentine's day again tu..hahaha..

Yenny said...

Nora: The light strike yesterday bah... hehehe.. I was going thru my stuff in My document because I am cleaning up my 'Chad' Lappy-toppy... he's hogging with all unimportant doc and unnecessary programs... so I found this, I have been meaning to post it on the V'Day I guess but I forgot about it.. So when I read it again, it open my eyes again and I realize that we always forget about this kind of things, so I decided to post it as to remind us about our other half.. and how lucky we are to found ours.. hehhe... so much in love I guess.. =)

Elara said...

Reading this post is like watching a romantic movie, only in beautiful words...

Yenny said...

deb : the 'guru' speak for herself

Ruis Jugah said...

so romantic! anyway, have a nice long weekends

Yenny said...

Wis : Thanks for stopping by Wis... well, its the truth right... man always like that.. anywa,no long nice weekends for me as I work during the weekends too... =(

Ruis Jugah said...

are you working today?

me too..at the office right -now taking a break with internet.

where is your working place?

Yenny said...

Wis : Since I am currently doing my 2nd degree and by research, basically I work from home here in the my research site... my lab is inside my own house but still I have to go to jungle for few hours everyday to take samples and capturing bats at night time.. It's based on my own time but tiring also... my work time would be from 10am till 3am daily with a few minutes rest in between the experiment... I guess we have to do this to make everything right.. =).. happy working

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