How to make a woman happy..

TO MAKE A WOMEN HAPPY....A MAN ONLY NEEDS TO BE :
1. a friend 2. a companion 3. a lover 4. a brother 5. a father 6. a master
7. a chef 8. an electrician 9. a carpenter 10. a plumber 11. a mechanic
12. a decorator 13. a stylist 14. a sexologist 15. a gynecologist 16. a psychologist
17. a pest exterminator 18. a psychiatrist 19. a healer 20. a good listener
21. an organizer 22. a good father 23. very clean 24. sympathetic 25. athletic
26. warm 27. attentive 28. gallant 29. intelligent 30. funny 31. creative
32. tender 33. strong 34. understanding 35. tolerant 36. prudent
37. ambitious 38. capable 39. courageous 40. determined 41. true
42. dependable 43. passionate

WITHOUT FORGETTING TO :
44. give her compliments regularly
45. love shopping
46. be honest
47. be very rich
48. not stress her out
49. not look at other girls

AND AT THE SAME TIME, YOU MUST ALSO :
50. give her lots of attention, but expect little yourself
51. give her lots of time, especially time for herself
52. give her lots of space, never worrying about where she goes

IT IS VERY IMPORTANT :
53. Never to forget: * birthdays * anniversaries * arrangements she makes


HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY :
1. Leave him alone

Is that it? Just leave him alone??? I don't think so... I know I know... Leaving my beloved one alone is not my way.. I know sometimes I am being overly worried on him ( sowe dear).. but that just me.. what is wrong with being overly concerned and maybe protected.. Tell me one good reason then I might agree with you.. There is so much different between being concerned and controlling others life.. when you concerned about someone, you might ask lots of question about what he/she up to.. and knowing what is going on is helping you to feel better for that person.. At least you know that she/he is doing fine... Controlling is like choosing what you want that person to be... Like our parents want us to be somebody who we wasn't.. My parents wants me to be a doctor.. and to pleased them, I become one of the best student in school.. I study hard.. and play hard too... and being an excel one,every single person in my family wants me to be a doctor including my late grandpas.. It was almost everyone dreams except my cousins.. Some of them hates me for being a smart-ass.. why? their parents is always comparing their academic achievements with mine.. and I am totally not cool with that, I am not proud of that... and I know some of them still hates me till now.. *sigh*... but, I realize that it was not my dream of becoming a doctor,it was theirs.. so I decided to go against it... my parents was mad at me,at first.. but I know that they just want the best for me.. so they just agree with what I want.. as long as I am happy.. I thanks God for having such a good parents..a very understanding one...

Okay, back to the main story.. so what is concern and controlling to you? Is it the same or two different words... I know that,being overly concerned gives lots of pressure to my beloved one.. but being so far away from each other doesn't help the situation.. I just need to know where he is and that is enough.. I know him long enough and I know that I can trust him.. the main thing when you are in a long-distance relationship is TRUST EACH OTHER.... and nothing can do compared to that... We talked a lot.. I told him what I want and he told me what he needs.. and we are even... it is not that hard actually... He gives me space when I am doing my works or hang out with my friends.. I give him space when he's busy and with his friends... we keep each other updated from time to time... cause he knows that I hated it when I heard any rumors about him from others... he knows that I will start asking him lots and lots of question until I am satisfied... I hated doing it but thats the only way to make me feel better again and stop worrying about things.. Yes Hon I know I worry to much.. but that just me.. =) and to those who doesn't understand me usually think that I am being a 'queen control' Ms.GF... You,I hope you read this and I just want you to know that nothing you can do to separate us.. we are so much in love.. and you never know that.. If you are really his friends, you would never do what you have done to us.. just leave him alone or I will do something someday.. Don't mess with me!!! You don't know what I am capable of doing...

So, what is concern and control to you? care to share.... I am calling my dear friends to answers this.. You know who you are... Yes,you.. =)